Dear Lady Hooper-Brackett,
My husband is becoming an irritating jerk. He constantly interrupts conversations. No matter who is speaking. It is annoying to have to stop mid-sentence while he spouts his platitudes and interjects his nonsense. I’m fed up. What can I do?
Ready To Scream
Dear Ready To Scream,
Remember the part in your vows where you said for better or for worse. Well…you’ve entered for worse.
Dealing with someone who constantly interrupts is a huge challenge that requires some tact. You can always address this annoying behavior in the moment, stating calmly that you would appreciate the opportunity to finish speaking before he offers a response.
Another approach is to talk to him in private when things are calm. Tell him how being interrupted makes you feel and remind him that others also feel this way.
Unfortunately, there are people who just will not learn. My big concern is that he is doing this at work and it is affecting his prospects. That angle might be the best one to approach him with. Money talks.
Best always,
The Lady Hooper-Brackett.