Tuesday Tea-Time Thoughts : The Bane of “Have a Good One”

Cherished readers, The Lady is back to her normal schedule once more and enjoyed tea with her friends in the garden while the warmer weather is still here. And now New England is keeping an eye on Hurricane Jose. The seasons are changing.

As usual there was a lively topic as the ladies sipped tea. The Lady caused a little stir (and is sure that more people are going to disagree with her on this subject) when she complained of one her biggest pet peeves and that is being told to HAVE A GOOD ONE. Everywhere you go from the bank to Burger King to the grocery store to the doctor’s office, when you thank the person taking your money more often than not they tell you to “Have a good one!”

Have a good what????

Drink of water? Vacation? Marathon? Oh….you mean DAY!!!! At first The Lady thought this might be a regional thing peculiar to New England and then she discovered on her travels that this seemed to be prevalent everywhere.

Some might ask: What’s the big deal? The Lady refuses to say Have a good one because it sounds vulgar…this ‘good one’ can be any number of unsavory things. To be clear…she is as much against ordering someone to have a good day. She much prefers the kindly and mannerly Hungarian custom that Lord Hooper-Brackett explained to her of wishing someone a good day: “I wish you a good day”. That sounds much more civilized.

The Lady knows that manners change, but she still can’t help longing for the days before “Have a good one” became the norm.

Wishing You All A Good Day,

The Lady Hooper-Brackett





2 thoughts on “Tuesday Tea-Time Thoughts : The Bane of “Have a Good One””

  1. Your Ladyship; I feel the same about the phrase “No problem ” as a response to “Thank You”. In
    In Mississippi “Goodbye” was often replaced by “Y’all come back”. Which, to me, was very welcoming.


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