Do you host football or other sports parties? Have you had ever had an unruly guest? I feel that this just might be a situation that is quite common.
Dear Lady Hooper-Brackett,
Please give me the best advice you can on what to do about my cousin. She comes over every Sunday to watch football (we have about 20 people here each week as we enjoy watching the games). She is fine at first, but boy, once she has her fourth beer in her, she becomes a belligerent jerk. She thinks she is being funny with people, she picks on people, but she calls it ‘busting chops’; she is really rude and crass. She is hurting the feelings of everyone who come here. My problem is, I am completely a non-confrontational person. The thought of dis-inviting her is keeping me up at night. What do I do?
Dear Stressed Hostess,
I certainly don’t advise speaking to her about this while she well into her cups. I shudder to think what would happen. I must admit that I cannot understand those types of people who feel the need to ‘bust chops’ as you said. How does it contribute to a pleasant gathering if you pick on others?
When she is sober, talk to her about her behavior. If you are still scared to do this and it still gives you insomnia…omit liquor from the Sunday get-togethers completely and see if the same thing happens. If she is no longer jerky, then fine…all is well. But if she is still rude, I fear you must tell her that she is no longer welcome.
No guest has the right to behave in the manner you described. She is showing disrespect to you, your home, and your other guests.
The Lady Hooper-Brackett
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Your Ladyship; one might substitute no alcohol beer(after the first) and see what happens.
My good man, This is true.