Cherished readers, The Lady presents today’s question. She advises at all times to Never Call Attention To Oneself
Dear Lady Hooper-Brackett,
Here’s my real life question. What do you think of people who bad-mouth their exes in public?
The Lady presumes that you mean ‘ex-husbands’ ,’ex-wives’ , ‘ex-boyfriends’ or ‘ex-girlfriends’, though she assumes you could mean ‘ex-bosses’ or ‘ex-colleagues’.
The Lady has a very good piece of advice for anyone who may be tempted to spout-off publicly: DON’T.
To publicly speak ill of someone that you were once in a relationship with is bad form. The Lady understands that most people do talk about their unfortunate experiences, and there is nothing wrong keeping these conversations in the family circle or between friends. It is when you blab away to all and sundry that it becomes a social faux pas. After all, people can understand that things may not have worked out and it is always better to at least give the impression that things ended on friendly terms.
If the ex is an ex-boss, The Lady fears you will risk any future employment opportunities. People can be reluctant to hire someone for fear that they will in turn talk badly about the new boss.
Silence is Golden.
Best Ex Wishes,
The Lady Hooper-Brackett